4- Shhh!


Vlog 4 – Shhh!

 Hello my friend, I’m Victoria Bellido Durán, member of the Musical Group Flos Mariae. And today I’m going to give you my opinion about the subject that I entitled “Shhh!”

¡Shhhhhhhh!… You don’t have to say everything you think, but you have to think about everything you say. 

There are those who just want to be the center of attention, and those who only expect others to bear him in mind; and so they talk and talk about everything and anything they think, even though it be the first nonsense that passes them through the head.

It isn’t good to talking for talking’s sake; it’s preferable to respect the silence and meditate.

Many mistakes are made precisely for this, because we talk a lot, and we think little, or even nothing.

Everyone needs their own space, but never more the physical than the spiritual. Many are satisfied with having a corner and material objects for themselves, however, they aren’t worry about find themselves; their head is too busy in television, songs or music, social networks, consume and spend.

Many are worried for fulfill themselves in terms of work and socially, and aren’t even able to spend a few minutes a day to themselves; here I don’t refer hobbies, but the integrity of one’s own. Some, not even think about what they really like or what they want in life; and like ping pong balls, they are carried along by the fashion, as the large majority of people. That is, that not even live their lives. If it’s fashionable travel to x place, they travel to x place, although they not even like to travel; in order to people around them, don’t look them as if they were “weirdos”.

The most important thing is not what others think, after all, absolutely all the people are never reaching an agreement; you cannot have pleased everyone. So the most important thing is oneself. Everyone should bear that in mind, and very clear.

And how can you know what you truly cares, or what takes precedence in your life, if you doesn’t think or meditate?   

Give you time, this time that you deserve and need to grow and mature as a person. It isn’t a matter of locking yourself in the room for an hour and force you to think. Any minute of the day is good to think… and often it’s thought after listening to a conversation, or having seen or done something.

You must think everything you say and don’t say all what you think. You must obey your will, and fulfill yourself entirely as a person. And you’ll see how doing it, you’re happier.

My friend, thank you.

Always go ahead with faith.

Victoria Bellido Durán
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