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Vlog 83 – Responsibility

 Hello my friend, I’m Victoria Bellido Durán, member of the Musical Group Flos Mariae, and today I want to give you my opinion about the subject that I entitled: “Responsibility”.

My friend, today I want to talk you about responsibility. There is much talk of freedom, but the responsibility, is not even mentioned, when both are closely linked. But no matter how free someone is or feels, that doesn’t, that doesn’t exempt anyone from the responsibility that comes with every decision and action, although they have been made freely.

Every word, thought and deed, has a reaction, not only on our physical and spiritual life, but also on that of the others… In the world!

—Responsible? Of course!, I’m one hundred percent responsible. When I blunder, I accept it, sometimes even I apologize. It is normally to be wrong!, everybody make mistakes.

There are those who believe they are responsibles, when they face the consequences of their evil deeds, their sins and errors; but, no, I’m not talking about an act of responsibility, or about the acceptance of a mistake, and that is where it ends the thing. The person really responsible, is who lives and acts right, complying with his/her duty, being a good citizen, a good son of God, having a responsible life.

My friend, are you responsible?

Live with responsibility, and you’ll live better; you’ll have a clean conscience, and you will be happy here on earth and in Heaven.

My friend, thank you.

And always go ahead with faith.

Victoria Bellido Durán
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Vlog 82 – Good people aren’t fool

 Hello my friend, I’m Victoria Bellido Durán, member of the Musical Group Flos Mariae, and today I want to give you my opinion about the subject that I entitled: “Good people aren’t fool”.

My friend, good people aren’t fool, and although many don’t believe this truth, truly I say to you that goodness and foolishness are enemies. Jesus told us that we must be shrewd as serpents and simple as doves. Shrewd in order to not be fooled by evil people, and innocent, in order to not do evil as them.

A person of clumsy understanding and with low intelligence, a neutral person, naive, who believes that everyone is acting in good faith, can not be good, because if he/she is fool, he/she won’t be able to differentiate good from evil, and as a result, he/she won’t have good conduct, as God requires us.

The good people, the future saints, live in God’s grace and follow His commandments and advices, for this reason, they are good, because they follow the laws of the Supreme Good, being able to accomplish, only because Jesus Christ, God Himself, is inside them, because they’ve received Him in the sacraments.

My friend, be good, don’t be a fool. Be shrewd as serpents and simple as doves.

My friend, thank you.

And always go ahead with faith.

Victoria Bellido Durán
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Vlog 81 – Love until it hurts

 Hello my friend, I’m Victoria Bellido Durán, member of the Musical Group Flos Mariae, and today I want to give you my opinion about the subject that I entitled: “Love until it hurts”.

My friend, everybody yearn for love, romantic love, family love, love between friends… But not everyone is willing to love, when it hurts, and although many say that they are capable, at the moment of truth, when the pain comes, they disappear without a trace.

My friend, God created man in His image and likeness, and the seal of love of God was printed in the man, that’s why the whole of humanity has the condition, the need, to love and to be loved.

Love until it hurts, it doesn’t mean to be masochistic, or to let yourself be mistreated, or to trample on behalf of “love”. To love until it hurts, is to love as Jesus loves us, God, Who came into the world, Who became incarnate in the Virgin Mary, in order to die on the cross to save us, when the time came.

My friend, can a mere human being, to love until it hurts, as God -Who loves you, and loves us with all His strength-, did and does?

Yes, of course, it can be done, if God lives in one, by frequently receiving Him in the sacraments and by continuously living in Sanctifying Grace.

My friend, love, love until it hurts!, although you are slandered, humiliated or despised; because only the one who loves until it hurts, only the one who wishes the good for the others, who prays for his/her adversary, wishing the very best for his/her adversary; the Life in the Eternal Heaven, even if your adversary is bad and do you evil, only this one loves truly, because God loves with him/her.

My friend, love your enemies and get away from them, preventing them from sinning more, by not being you at their fingertips, and thereby, preventing them from sinning seriously, and from doing you evil. Love until it hurts, be saint, for God!

My friend, thank you.

And always go ahead with faith.

Victoria Bellido Durán
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Vlog 80 – Don’t play with fire

 Hello my friend, I’m Victoria Bellido Durán, member of the Musical Group Flos Mariae, and today I want to give you my opinion about the subject that I entitled: “Don’t play with fire”.

My friend, be smart and don’t play “with fire”, because, sooner or later, you are going to burn. For one person, what is the benefit of sinning -for a fleeting pleasure-, if doing that, his/her earthly happiness and the Heaven, the Eternity, are at stake?

Be smart, and think of yourself and for your sake.

Honestly, think, meditate… what is the benefit for you of sinning? There is no benefit, because bad can’t give good things, as a bad tree can’t bears good fruit.

If you want good things, you have to go to God and be of God, because only He, God, is the supreme Good, so no one but Him, can give you good.

Do not be a fool, and stop playing with “fire”, because you will burn.

Be smart, and don’t listen what people say to you; you just do what God wants, Jesus; fulfill His will, and you won’t burn.

My friend, thank you.

And always go ahead with faith.

Victoria Bellido Durán
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Vlog 79 – Everything has a reason

 Hello my friend, I’m Victoria Bellido Durán, member of the Musical Group Flos Mariae, and today I want to give you my opinion about the subject that I entitled: “Everything has a reason”.

My friend, everything, yes, everything has a reason for being, and a reason to making it. Life is like that, really, everything you do is for interest, and that’s not bad, just, the world and everything in it, works like this.

For example, if you clean the house, it is in order to leave it clean; if you study, it is in order to have a university degree and to be able to exercise, or because you don’t want to be doing nothing; and if you work hard, it is in order to achieve a better positioning in the workplace, to have a higher salary, or to thrive in life. The reasons may be many, but always, always, everything is done for a reason.

Some people are motivated by Good, and others, by Evil, and often, things are just not what they appear to be; incredible as it may seem, there are people who do “good deeds” only because of what the people will say about them, and not because they believe that they have to be good, or because they want to please God, their Creator and Lord.

Now, my friend, stop right there, yes, right there!, and ask yourself… Why do you do the things? What is the reason, in capital letter, which governs your life? The money, what the others will say, the applause of the world, selfishness…? Or to obey and please God, making this world a better world?

My friend, thank you.

And always go ahead with faith.

Victoria Bellido Durán
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Vlog 78 – Use your head!

 Hello my friend, I’m Victoria Bellido Durán, member of the Musical Group Flos Mariae, and today I want to give you my opinion about the subject that I entitled: “Use your head!”.

My friend, use your head!, don’t be afraid of it; use the head to think, thereby you are not going to hit it.

Follow the right way, and be a perfect man; love and do good, and others will love you too.

Use your head!, be a wise man; use your head and stay away from the foolish man.

Go your way, don’t fool around, follow the way of holiness and you’ll have Life in the eternity.

My friend, my friend, do you want to know the truth? Then use your head and you’ll find it.

Time flies!, time is money; what are you waiting for?; use your head, quickly!

My friend, use your head, think no more!; use your head and you won’t regret it.

My friend, thank you.

And always go ahead with faith.

Victoria Bellido Durán
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Vlog 77 – Love

 Hello my friend, I’m Victoria Bellido Durán, member of the Musical Group Flos Mariae, and today I want to give you my opinion about the subject that I entitled: “Love”.

Love, love, love… My friend, everybody is interested in love, because of what it is and what it means, although not everyone are prepared to take on what it entails, sacrifice; that’s why some people, disguise the selfishness, selling and showing it to the whole world, as if it were love, when there is only passion, or not even that.

My friend, love is sweet, patient, romantic and attentive; is honour, dignity and courage, is to desire the good of the other; is joy in the triumphs, support in difficulties, it’s to think of the loved one…; love is to give, and to give oneself, in the name of the Supreme Good, of the Love in capital letter.

My friend, if someone loves you very well, he/she will love you with all the power and the depth of the word love, as Christ, Jesus, did it, because God, Jesus, is LOVE and He demonstrated it very well.

My friend, so that your love be great, eternal and true, you must love through God, in order that loving Him, God, through you, your love be real and imperishable, in order that your love be sincere.

My friend, ¡my friend!, love and love yourself, for loving the Love, for loving God.

My friend, thank you.

And always go ahead with faith.

Victoria Bellido Durán
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Vlog 76 – Just one language

 Hello my friend, I’m Victoria Bellido Durán, member of the Musical Group Flos Mariae, and today I want to give you my opinion about the subject that I entitled: “Just one language”.

My friend, the facts and words, are united by a single language, the language of the truth. We all know, that we can trust those who put into practice the goodnesses that spread their lips, with the facts. But, woe to those who are all talk and do not comply!; these, lie.

No matter how many beautiful things someone can whisper in your ear, no matter how many “I love you my life, and I need you”, if the words are not going in the same direction as their acts, be realistic, they are lying.

Don’t trust liars, don’t trust those who talk very much but their words are blown with the wind, not standing on firm ground due to the own weight of their acts, which are contrary to their words.

My friend, in the same way that you don’t like that people lie to you, then, don’t lie to yourself nor others. That your words and acts speak just one language, the language of truth; that your words and deeds be just one.

My friend, my friend!, speak just one language, be a real man!

My friend, thank you.

And always go ahead with faith.

Victoria Bellido Durán
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Vlog 75 – Words

 Hello my friend, I’m Victoria Bellido Durán, member of the Musical Group Flos Mariae, and today I want to give you my opinion about the subject that I entitled: “Words”.

Words, words… My friend, do you know how much good can you do with the words? So much good!; be good with everyone!, do good without looking at who. Yes, my friend!, construct, construct with your words, fortresses that don’t collapse, because good words boost morale and spirit.

My friend, use correctly the power of the words, because yes, because you can, because you want, and because with it, with the good power of the words, a better world is built.

My friend, that your words build and not destroy, for God! That your mouth be like a gold mine in virtues, wisdom, love and kindness.

You can, of course you can! With God, you can.

Construct, construct with the words, and do a better world, full of peace, joy and love.

My friend, thank you.

And always go ahead with faith.

Victoria Bellido Durán
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Vlog 74 – Writer and protagonist

 Hello my friend, I’m Victoria Bellido Durán, member of the Musical Group Flos Mariae, and today I want to give you my opinion about the subject that I entitled: “Writer and protagonist”.

My friend, everyone would like to write at least one book in his/her life, a book that has a lot of fame, a book that likes and motivates to everyone, a book that everyone rave about it.

Perhaps you never get to write a book on paper, but believe me, your life is a story, and if you live it conscientiously and in union with God, always doing good without looking at who, it will be a story like the other saints stories, a motivational story, a famous and exemplary story, a story that will speak marvels through the main character, that is, you.

However, if you choose to make a common history of your life, and like the ordinary people, few will know about it, only the people around you, until they forget it, in the same way we forget a bad book in a dusty nook, if it is not thrown away. Because, tell me, why is someone interested on remember a story of those without logic or consistency, where the protagonist acts with supreme foolishness, without contributing anything good, not doing good? or why do it serves to someone?

My friend, be a good writer and protagonist of your story, of your life!, and you’ll live forever, not only in Heaven, also in the minds and hearts of those who know your history, of those who you have helped with your history.

My friend, thank you.

And always go ahead with faith.

Victoria Bellido Durán
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