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3- Goodbye to the gray

 

Vlog 3 – Goodbye to the gray

 Hello my friend; I’m Victoria Bellido Durán, member of the Musical Group Flos Mariae. And today I’m going to give you my opinion about the subject that I entitled “Goodbye to the gray”.

Depends, depends, depends! For some people all depends of with eyes you look it. Well, eyes, or angle… Everything is subjective, it is not neither white, nor black, it’s… gray.

There are those who live immersed in relativism, either for convenience or other reasons, such as lack of formation and information.

What would happen if everything really was relative, as some believe?

—Goodnight Carmen.

—You would mean good morning.

—Good morning? But if there are more than nine o’clock and it’s all dark. Don’t you see the stars?

—Then it will be night for you, because I just get up only five minutes ago.

That is just a mere example.

—Sandra, Sandra! Do you know that someone has stolen the bag to Sofia?

—What!?

—Yes, a man has stolen it.

—It will not be so; maybe he has borrowed it for some time.

The day not dawn according to when someone gets up, nor night falls when someone goes to bed… And if someone takes something against the will of its owner, this is a robbery. The record straight, because otherwise, dispense with dictionaries and speech.

Many people use relativism for escape from reality and also for make excuses of bad use of their freedom; and of course, it is much easier to talk, that change and have a good behavior.

If you know a good lawyer, it means that he is good in laws, in his work; but that doesn’t mean that he is also: a good father, a faithful husband, a kindly son… Please, don’t confuse things. The problem is that many people want to generalize.

For example, if now someone said: “Widows who are widowed younger, ripen earlier than the elderly widowed”. Here, if it is not mentioned that takes place with the majority of the widows, would be brutally generalizing to say something that isn’t true, because not “all the younger widows mature earlier than the older widows” by rule of three; because there are even widows who never mature.

In other words; not because can not be generalize to simple characteristics and thick means that there aren’t truths with universal validity, as erroneously defends the relativism; because there is. What happens is that human being can reason, and it’s totally free to opine. But opine goes not united with have reason, for more eloquence that has one person. Because an opinion cannot change a truth, by highly innovative that this is.

Perhaps the relativism searchs that nobody be discontented? Is it the game of “everyone is right by the power of the mind of each individual”? Because that is what it seems.

Would you like some advice? Say goodbye to the gray! “Stay away from relativism, join Catholicism!”

My friend, thank you.

And always go ahead with faith.

Victoria Bellido Durán
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2- White and black

 

   Vlog 2 – White and black

 Hello my friend, I’m Victoria Bellido Durán, member of the Musical Group Flos Mariae. And today I’m going to give you my opinion about the subject that I entitled “White and black”.

Before starting, I want to clarify that I have absolutely nothing against any of these colors that I’ve mentioned before; I use them as comparative terms, to facilitate understanding of the subject that now I’m going to talk.

White and black, two colors with one contrast between, totally extremist. And however, they exist in the same world. When we hear talk about them, we know to what tone they refer… we don’t suppose, and we don’t imagine “nuances” of these colors, right? Because white is white and black is black; if not, they stop immediately to be white and black, and they go over to be ivory or another dark color.

White and black… the same happens with the goodness and evil. These are the real terms by which people are classified meanwhile they are living here on earth.  

But… what if white isn’t pure white? Simply it’s no longer white, and becomes to be ivory, beige or another tone of the color scale, without being part of the first adjective: White; because it, only it’s designate for the faithful tonality to its name and rules.

Do you think it’s extremist? Maybe, but it’s the truth. In the life there are only two sides: the good and the bad: white against black; and you, I… and everybody!, only belong to one of these two teams.  

There isn’t any more… none. There aren’t groups like: the “half white”, “half black”, or “It depends upon how you look at it”, in spite of what some want to believe.

I have to be honest with you, so I’ll say that even if you don’t want, you’re a member of one, only of one of these two teams; not because you have signed any document, or because others have been able to do it for you; but what you sign over your life with your work, thoughts and words. In other words, your behavior reveals your true identity.  

Many what they do is make excuses, ensuring thus soothe his conscience, saying things like…

—”I don’t do harm to anyone, I just live and let live”.

—”Maybe I’m not a saint, but I not kill or rob anyone”.

—”The good and evil don’t exist, that are “stories” for children”.

You may not be sure about many things, but you can be sure that a conscience really clean and at peace with God, it is more, much more, than all the messy pleasures that somebody can permit in the terrestrial life; because once that someone is dead (let’s be honest, nobody lives on earth forever), when that someone doesn’t have a body to do the madnesses which did before, or with which surrender to the disorderly passions… do you think that he will be proud of freely having decided to live badly his way, a handful of years, to finally burning eternally in the hell?  

Of course you are free to choose, and that is good!, that being free, you decide to do good or evil; so it’s your freedom with your facts, who, to crossing the threshold of death, you sentence to heaven or hell; being Jesus, God, only a judge. 

Look, I want to ask you… What can lose “someone” being always good? The disorderly sexual pleasure? The believe that oneself are better than the others by skipping standards and rules? Only the eternal hell, and the illicit and selfish carnal pleasures that condemn him forever. Do you truly think that worth living doing evil, in order that when a person dies he finishes in hell for all eternity?

I advise you to use correctly your freedom, because only you can decide it by yourself. Think about it with a cool head, and not letting you carry by the passions, emotions or momentary pleasures.

White and black, good or bad. ¿What do you want to be?

My friend, thank you.

And always go ahead with faith.

Victoria Bellido Durán
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1- Good morning

 

Vlog 1 – Good morning

  Hello my friend, I’m Victoria Bellido Durán, member of the musical group Flos Mariae. And today I’m going to give you my opinion about the subject that I entitled “Good morning”.

My friend, you need affection. Yes, you! Like all the people.

Perhaps you’ve never thought about it, but even the strongest human being the bravest, the wisest and the most independent, needs, waits, yearns for receive affection. Because the people are sociable, and for that reason the happiest people are those who feel, give and receive affection.  And you know what? I want, I wish that you be happy, for that reason I’m doing this videovlog. Because the happiness it’s possible and it’s at your disposal.

Yes, Of course! It depends on you and your willpower, notwithstanding the situations or the circumstances that you’re living. Do you want to rescue or establish for the first time a good and affective family relationship?

If your fact is like that of so many young people, who only coincides with his parents a few minutes a day, and don’t even speak, I tell you that you can change your relationship with them. It’s likely to be difficult at first to start communicating by lack of habit, but calm down; if you have persistence, time will be in your favor, because no good relationship born of overnight.

So here are some tips; in the morning, when you wake up, when you see your parents, give them a kiss and tell them “good morning”. Perfect! That’s enough to get started! Because a gesture it’s better tan a thousand words.

Do the same at night. Before go to bed, say goodbye to them with a kiss and a “good night”.

Don’t forget to do exactly the same with your Mother of the Heaven, the Virgin Mary, and the Baby Jesus, giving to them a kiss and say hi in the morning and evening. And if you want, you can repeat.

Do this and you’ll watch that your days, your life… begins to change.

You must be interested by your family, those around you; parents, siblings, grandparents… and that affection that you give and you will give, sooner or later, will be returned, and will change your outlook of the life. Because you, you live to be happy and bring happiness to those around you.

My friend, thank you.

And always go ahead with faith.

Victoria Bellido Durán
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