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Vlog 43 – What are you going to do this year?

 Hello my friend, I’m Victoria Bellido Durán, member of the Musical Group Flos Mariae, and today I want to give you my opinion about the subject that I entitled: “What are you going to do this year?”

My friend, the new year is already underway, but, and you? You haven’t proposed anything for this year yet? Then, let me give you a hand…

My friend, yes, I say to you: be a virtuous person. Strive!, build your character, and you will become more valuable than the precious stones.

You can be better, I know that you know it! Then, what are you waiting for? Get down to work, and to triumph! Acquire good habits, that is to say, virtues; that it be the plan, your plan of this new year that you have started to live. Begin slowly, one by one, but propose indeed, to obtain all the theological and cardinal virtues: Faith, hope, charity; prudence, justice, fortitude and temperance.

Perfect yourself with God’s help. You can, champion!

My friend, thank you.

And always go ahead with faith.

Victoria Bellido Durán
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Vlog 42 – To give

 Hello my friend, I’m Victoria Bellido Durán, member of the Musical Group Flos Mariae, and today I want to give you my opinion about the subject that I entitled: “To give”.

My friend, tell me… can someone give money or material things to others, if he/she doesn’t have it? Well, we agree!: in order to give, first it’s necessary to have. That, that happens with all the things of the life!

The process is very simple, though perhaps not so much to put it into practice. Already you will see… If someone wants to have money, he/she works, and that work generates a salary. With that money, he/she can get material goods, buy products, pay services…

But what happens with the not material goods, that is to say, what happens with the spiritual things, with the not physical things? How are they obtained?… through God.

Oh, and you wonder, but in what way? Well, through prayer, your will and to put it into practice, because the virtues, the Grace and the gifts, cannot be obtained with money, not even studying.

Pray my friend, pray and grow as a person.

My friend, thank you.

And always go ahead with faith.

Victoria Bellido Durán
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Vlog 41 – The best!

 Hello my friend, I’m Victoria Bellido Durán, member of the Musical Group Flos Mariae, and today I want to give you my opinion about the subject that I entitled: “The best!”

My friend, there are those who give more value, than they have, to certain things, as for example to the money.

—The money? The money is the best!; with it, you can do anything; you can buy whatever you want, bribe or blackmail to anyone… You can even buy a university degree without having studied absolutely anything! Yeah.

Seriously? Do you think that with money you obtain everything?

—If you have a lot of money, yes.

I don’t agree with you. One: the money is not the best; and two: with it, you cannot obtain everything.

Well, it’s true that, with money, we can obtain many things that without money they aren’t acquired, not even in jest, but, no person, however rich, can buy a millimeter of Heaven, not with all his/her fortune. Neither can be bought the kindness, the wisdom, the peace… any virtue. Only is possible to buy the material and physical things, or the services of other people, nothing more! A person cannot buy a new character or temperament not even with money.

Therefore, if money isn’t all, and it cannot give you everything, why do you idealize it?

Be clever, and come to the only One who indeed can give you everything, Almighty God!, because He is certainly the best.

My friend, thank you.

And always go ahead with faith.

Victoria Bellido Durán
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Vlog 40 – Easy, or difficult

 Hello my friend, I’m Victoria Bellido Durán, member of the Musical Group Flos Mariae, and today I want to give you my opinion about the subject that I entitled: “Easy, or difficult”.

My friend, there are persons who do things, or they stop doing them, depending on whether they are easy or difficult.

But, who does not admires and respects the heroes, whose names are remembered precisely for doing always the right thing, without becoming discouraged, nor consider if to carry it out, it’s easy or difficult?

My friend, you can be one of these heroes, for sure!, because if you confess and receive communion, you are with God, and for God nothing is impossible. Believe it!

Don’t be afraid, be brave, with bravery!, and go to receive the sacraments, nothing else matters but to be always good and to do good!

Do not consider, if to be good, it’s easy or difficult; think that to be good, it’s the only way that will take you to the Eternal Heaven.

My friend, do good without looking at whom.

My friend, thank you.

And always go ahead with faith.

Victoria Bellido Durán
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Vlog 39 – To get the best!

 Hello my friend, I’m Victoria Bellido Durán, member of the Musical Group Flos Mariae, and today I want to give you my opinion about the subject that I entitled: “To get the best!”

My friend, my friend!, tell me, when you are going to buy, first you make a study, and you only spend your money in the best product that are within your means, right?

That’s because you want the best thing, isn’t it? And it doesn’t surprise me, because you deserve the best, solely by reason of being a son of God.

My friend, as when you are going to buy a car, you choose the one you like the most, and you don’t take the first one that appears in front of you, then do the same thing in everything in your life.

If you want to marry, don’t marry the first one that crosses in your life, and falls at your feet. You choose whom to love the whole life, and with whom to share your days. Don’t be contented with that, nor lose hope. If you want to be happy, not only do you have to love, but to be loved. You don’t want a divorce after other one, truth?

A car, a house, can always be sold, and you can buy a better new one. But in the sentimental relationships, the feelings and the whole life are put at risk. I’m not being dramatic, I’m only realistic.

My friend, be realistic, and choose always the best.

My friend, thank you.

And always go ahead with faith.

Victoria Bellido Durán
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Vlog 38 – A good mother

 Hello my friend, I’m Victoria Bellido Durán, member of the Musical Group Flos Mariae, and today I want to give you my opinion about the subject that I entitled: “A good mother”.

My friend, all the children, believe me, all!, they want to have a good mother, a strong, brave, sweet and loving mother who takes care of him/her, who consoles and supports him/her, who understands him/her, and who helps him/her to go out forward.

Do you imagine her? What a marvel!, isn’t it?

Then, make happy that sad heart!, because we all, ALL, have a mother like this; Her name is sweet as herself: Mary.

The Virgin Mary, Mother of God, your mother and mother of everybody, is the most perfect woman and mother. Don’t hesitate to come to Her, don’t hesitate it!, because She doesn’t hesitate, even for an instant, to help you, to look after you and to console you.

My friend, thank you.

And always go ahead with faith.

Victoria Bellido Durán
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Vlog 37 – One per day!

 Hello my friend, I’m Victoria Bellido Durán, member of the Musical Group Flos Mariae, and today I want to give you my opinion about the subject that I entitled: “One per day!”

My friend, I’m not going to talk to you about any discount coupon, nor about any sales promotion, forget about it!, because today, even if you don’t believe it, I’m going to talk you about something better… much better!

Before continuing, is there something that you do every day, something that stimulates you? To listen music, to read, to do exercise or any other thing?

Good, perfect! In the same way that you do it every day, I propose you something very simple, here among friends, you and I, yes! Do I say it to you? Do you want to hear it? Ok. That not a day passes on which you fall asleep without having prayed an Our Father.

Yes, that’s what I said, that you pray one Our Father per day. I dare you to do it! Let’s see if you are capable to do it!

You will see that, with a simple Our Father per day, your life will be better.

Come on! Decide to pray one Our Father per day, come on, my friend, don’t be lazy, it won’t take a minute!

My friend, thank you.

And always go ahead with faith.

Victoria Bellido Durán
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Vlog 36 – “Healthy body in a healthy mind”

 Hello my friend, I’m Victoria Bellido Durán, member of the Musical Group Flos Mariae, and today I want to give you my opinion about the subject that I entitled: “Healthy body in a healthy mind”.

Hello my friend, I wanted to talk to you; ¡Yes, you!

In these times, not only there is much talk about having a body “ten”, but the persons who strive to obtain it, yes or yes, albeit at the cost of big sacrifices.

They worry about having a healthy and balanced diet, and to obtain it, they have to stop eating these “delicious whims” that make gain weight. They extract time wherefrom it is, in order to practice some sport, and thus having a strong body…

—What are you going to say now, that it’s bad?

¡No!, it’s not bad to want to have a healthy body. But don’t remain only in the first part of the phrase: “Healthy body in a healthy mind”, because the human being is not only a body, but body and soul. My friend, don’t forget your soul!, because certainly, the soul is what gives life to the body.

If your soul is bad, although your body is ok, your body is not going to work 100 %

If you can make sacrifices for the sake of your body, why cannot you make it for the sake of your soul also?

My friend: “Healthy body in a healthy mind”.

My friend, thank you.

And always go ahead with faith.

Victoria Bellido Durán
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Vlog 35 – You decide!

 Hello my friend, I’m Victoria Bellido Durán, member of the Musical Group Flos Mariae, and today I want to give you my opinion about the subject that I entitled: “You decide!”.

My friend, you give the orders, you decide in your life!

God has give, to you and all the world, the ability to do always the good, although you have received bad.

So it, don’t use the pretext “he began!” Don’t deceive yourself, you can do what you want!

—Ha, ha, ha…

Don’t you believe me? Try it!

Nobody can force you, to do anything that you don’t want, because you give the orders in youself. For example, if you see that someone wants to argue with you, and incites you to it with shouts or insults, you have the power to do what you want: to let yourself go for the impulse of giving him a couple of slaps in the face, and to read him the riot act, or, to control yourself wisely, and leave him “hopping mad” alone.  

My friend, your will is stronger than physical force. Control your emotions, and you will triumph!

My friend, thank you.

And always go ahead with faith.

Victoria Bellido Durán
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Vlog 34 – Second chances

 Hello my friend, I’m Victoria Bellido Durán, member of the Musical Group Flos Mariae, and today I want to give you my opinion about the subject that I entitled: “Second chances”.

My friend, who has never dreamed with a second chance? Who has not wanted to not have committed any mistake?

My friend, let me be frank with you, the sins and errors, have no reverse; the life lived, lived is. The time is not going to return to the past, is not going to leave you to act in a different way. Be realist and face the reality. There doesn’t exist any machine that returns you to the past and offers you the opportunity to change your life, your future.

What does exists, is Jesus, God of love, because He is LOVE; and for His love, for being the One Who is, He not only gives you a second chance, but all second chances you need!

See! Realize! God is the King and Lord of the second chances, of all the opportunities, because of it He stayed in the Catholic Church and in the Sacraments, to console you in the confession, and to fortify you in the Communion and other Sacraments. Be clever and use the Sacraments, so often as you need!

Be happy!, because God loves you and waits for you in the confessional, to give you another marvelous chance.

 My friend, thank you.

 Always go ahead with faith.

Victoria Bellido Durán
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