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Vlog 23 – You are free

 Hello my friend, I’m Victoria Bellido Durán, member of the Musical Group Flos Mariae, and today I want to give you my opinion about the subject that I entitled: “You are free”.

My friend, really, you as all the human beings, you are free; free to choose, to decide, to think; free to be and do.

—Of course that I’m free, I do what I want at all time.

I know that you know your freedom. I only want to remember you that your freedom, it does not exempt you from any responsibility, this responsibility that all freedom carries.

As the civil law exists, also exists the God’s law, His Ten Commandments, summarized in two: you shall love God above all things and people, and your neighbor as yourself.

A small example. If someone drives exceeding the regulation speed, or he drives without permission, is fined; the same thing happens when a son of God does not obey His laws. The only difference, it’s that God sees everything, it’s not possible to cheat Him, and He does not judge us until the hour of our death.  

My friend, my advice for you is, that you use always, in every hour and moment, correctly of your freedom, without leaving of side the divine law, the law that God wrote with His own finger.

My friend, thank you.

And always go ahead with faith.

Victoria Bellido Durán
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Vlog 22 – There is a Heaven, a Purgatory and a Hell

 Hello my friend, I’m Victoria Bellido Durán, member of the Musical Group Flos Mariae, and today I want to give you my opinion about the subject that I entitled: “There is a Heaven, a Purgatory and a Hell”.

My friend, the Catholic-Christian faith teaches that there is a Heaven, a Purgatory and a Hell. The Purgatory is a place where go the souls who still don’t love God above all things and people, and who have not acted according to this maxim go. Anyone who doesn’t love God truly and completely, can be with Him; it’s the condition that puts God, that people love Him, in order to go to Heaven; and there are many who go, those, love God above all things and their neighbors as they love themselves. And there is who go to Hell, because they don’t love God and don’t want to love Him; and in Hell, God is not, there are the most terrible loneliness and absence of love. Where there is no God, there is NOTHING good, everything is bad and makes you bad.

My friend, decide, act according to your heart’s content. God loves you, and you must know it, you have to know it, it’s necessary that you know it. Now that you know it, let yourself be loved by God, and also love Him. Amen.

My friend, thank you.

And always go ahead with faith.

Victoria Bellido Durán
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Vlog 21 – Some thoughts, what a waste of time

 Hello my friend, I’m Victoria Bellido Durán, member of the Musical Group Flos Mariae, and today I want to give you my opinion about the subject that I entitled: “Some thoughts, what a waste of time”.

My friend, yes, yes, I’m talking about those thoughts like…:

—What did he/she mean by that?, I wonder what is he/she doing right now?; oh, he/she does this because…, for…; what are his/her intentions?

Many thoughts are a waste of time, because we will never know the truth. Instead of investigating in the lives of others, look into yours, and make great moments of happiness of your life. How? Doing good without looking at who, and getting away from evil and the evil. Have a righteous attitude toward your life, of make it beautiful every day, with your deeds, words and thoughts. Dismiss the useless thoughts, those which logic tells you that you will not get, just thinking. Sometimes, other people occupy our thoughts, and to think in order to not get anywhere, it’s like walk in a locked labyrinth. Open yourself to life, think about the positive things you can do today and every day!

My friend, an advice, be firm with your good thoughts.

Think in God and in all your good work.

My friend, thank you.

And always go ahead with faith.

Victoria Bellido Durán
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Vlog 20 – To study or to work?

 Hello my friend, I’m Victoria Bellido Durán, member of the Musical Group Flos Mariae, and today I want to give you my opinion about the subject that I entitled: “To study or to work?”

My friend, my advice for you it’s to unite both things, to study and to work to provide money for your livelihood. I won’t cheat to you, life is a continuous struggle and several things are done at the same time; one person is not studying all day, nor works 24 hours a day. That’s for sure, less trash TV, fewer videos that doesn’t bring you anything good, too much music that does not allow you think. You, my friend, need stability: eat, sleep, meditate, listen, see, work, study, and relate well with others.

It’s good to have motivation into several things about your life, not just in one or two; learn to defend your energies and praying to God, he can give you a long life.

The human things mentioned before, are not good or bad, everything depends on the excess or shortage.

My friend, thank you.

And always go ahead with faith.

Victoria Bellido Durán
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Vlog 19 – If you don’t feel like going to Mass

 Hello my friend, I’m Victoria Bellido Durán, member of the Musical Group Flos Mariae, and today I want to give you my opinion about the subject that I entitled: “If you don’t feel like going to Mass”.

My friend, sometimes someone don’t feel like going to Mass, and has to investigate why; could it be because he is in sin and finds difficult to go to confession? Could it be that in the Church that he goes, there is someone who is unpleasant to him, perhaps he harmed him? Could it be that he doesn’t have health? Maybe is he experiencing moments of loss of faith? Has he changed his friends and goes with worldly people? Someone makes fun of him and of his faith? Is he passing through pain and does he thinks that God has abandoned him?…

My friend, you have to investigate why go to Mass bothers you, because go to Mass is a marvel, at Mass God appears in Body and Soul, and visits to all the assembly; and who wants, can go to receive the Living Jesus, Who is in the communion.

My friend, when things aren’t done right, we must investigate the cause.

My friend, thank you.

And always go ahead with faith.

Victoria Bellido Durán
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Vlog 18 – Eyes to see

 Hello my friend, I’m Victoria Bellido Durán, member of the Musical Group Flos Mariae, and today I want to give you my opinion about the subject that I entitled: “Eyes to see”.

My friend, your eyes are to see, I know that you know it, but I think that there may be people who think that you don’t know it, that is, you see something about them, by their acts, and they, with their words, they say that you are mistaken, that you are wrong. For example, you see the guy or girl that you like, flirting with another person, and he say that he isn’t flirting but he is talking, and that you are a jealous; what your eyes see, the body language that everybody emanate; your eyes see it, take it, and although their words deny it, you must have opinion about what you see. Like the one who goes to buy a product, and everybody talk wonders about it without allowing that he see the product much. Always have to be agree, the things clear and the voice you hear, with what your eyes see. One of the best human things that can happen in life is to be realistic; the truth is the truth, and there isn’t no more to talk; someone, knowing the truth, can decide freely; to be free, you must know the truth.

My friend, thank you.

And always go ahead with faith.

Victoria Bellido Durán
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Vlog 17 – Do you speak without thinking?

 Hello my friend, I’m Victoria Bellido Durán, member of the Musical Group Flos Mariae, and today I want to give you my opinion about the subject that I entitled: “Do you speak without thinking?”

My friend, the words, the phrases, the ideas that you give from you to the others, ARE GOING TO INFLUENCE THEM, surely!

You, although some may not believe it, you’re important, very important, for the others, but, why some are annoyed by what you say?; and even some are annoyed by what you don’t say, isn’t it?; think about it.

My friend, knowing that you are important to others, it’s good that you don’t speak without thinking, or let’s just say that it’s good that you talk to others, with the same confidence with which “you talk” to yourself, that is, that you don’t think aloud, but before you speak, you decide what you let others know of you, to not bother anyone, to not harm anyone, in order to others don’t harm to you.

You have to always speak with peace, with affection, because everyone needs you.

My friend, thank you.

And always go ahead with faith.

Victoria Bellido Durán
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Vlog 16 – They have criticized you

 Hello my friend, I’m Victoria Bellido Durán, member of the Musical Group Flos Mariae, and today I want to give you my opinion about the subject that I entitled: “They have criticized you”.

My friend, you have your reasons for why you do what you do, and… and… They have criticized you!

—Yes, I have just been criticized, and to my face, although I also know that they criticize me behind my back, between them, I know it!

They haven’t seen your point of view, now you don’t do like them, and see their point of view. If right now you can’t, put music, rest, say to yourself that this criticism that you have received, you’ll discern it later.

My friend, is not quickness on deciding and acting, which will give you the success, the peace, but that you are okay. If you don’t feel well, if you have been harmed, you need time to calm down, it’s normal, and it’s good that you calm down, you will decide later, you will decide when you want to do it.

My friend, thank you.

And always go ahead with faith.

Victoria Bellido Durán
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Vlog 15 – Receives more, who gives more

 Hello my friend, I’m Victoria Bellido Durán, member of the Musical Group Flos Mariae, and today I want to give you my opinion about the subject that I entitled: “Receives more, who gives more”.

My friend, it’s no good to be stingy in giving; receives more, who gives more. An example: A merchant who has more products, who has invested to have more, will sell more, because if you don’t have what to give, what will you receive?

About “because you deserve it”, although really, possibly, for being people, we deserve a better quality of life, the reality is that, if you can’t afford to pay it, you’ve not earned this affection from others, which will give you a better quality of life, the truth is that you don’t have it.

If you don’t give, you will not receive.

Perhaps, yes, your parents give you, but others don’t, don’t have why to do it; parents give because children “are theirs”, they gave them life, they would not exist without them, and parents love their children, and because of that, they give them, not by justice, but by paternal, maternal feelings. That’s not bad, the bad thing would be not to teach children to give in order to receive.

My friend, thank you.

And always go ahead with faith.

Victoria Bellido Durán
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Vlog 14 – When things don’t go well

 Hello my friend, I’m Victoria Bellido Durán, member of the Musical Group Flos Mariae, and today I want to give you my opinion about the subject that I entitled: “When things don’t go well”.

My friend, when things don’t go well, accept it!, override your desire for revenge, of envy, of: “you will pay me!”

You are not always going to win, someday you will lose, and to win in this loss, quickly you have to accept the defeat, and do it from the heart, even if it is an injustice. And you have to think the truth, that others are also free, like you, to do what they want, even if it be harmful to you. You continue with your life, and accept that Yes, you’ve lost, and really you can’t, in this, change things in good way, that is, without doing evil, without “wasting time”; accept it!, pray a Hail Mary in front a picture of the Virgin Mary with her Son God, and tell Her that you leave everything in her maternal hands, and She will make, will make and without malice. You don’t do, trust in Mom.

My friend, thank you.

And always go ahead with faith.

Victoria Bellido Durán
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